Anonymous asked: Whats wrong with a blog being exclusively for women who have been raped by me? What wrong with someone supporting an idividual group? I am a man you have supported I saw this blog and I just saw a woman supporting other women who were in her situation. Not a woman denying the fact that woman rape....You are great at what you do! And I feel you could support any rape victim! Thank you for everything you did for me

You are very welcome! Like I said when I answered the previous Anon…I blog what I know about. The experiences I have had. I have never meant to offend anyone. I am simply here blogging about my past….

I am very happy that I have helped you!

Anonymous asked: How are rape victims getting their freedom when the only time you represent male rape is when it's committed by another male, and the only time you post rape prevention is towards males rather than female rapists as well (because not all rapists are men)? It's great to see yet another rape blog that excludes half the population. Wonderful activism you've got going on here.

1st of all I have not once suggested men cannot be raped…and I have never said that only men rape. I have my own experiences and my own grudges which happens to be against men.

I have helped many men battle against girlfriends and wives who sexually abuse them. So don’t tell me that I only represent rape committed by men. I know it can be committed by anyone. Maybe you should come see what I do behind this blog. Maybe then you’ll actually see. I don’t have to post things on tumblr to make myself believe/know things. This blog supports everyone, and many men have realised that and got in contact. 

I find it a bit weird how because my blog represents my anger with men who rape women, because that is what I have experienced this is what I am dealing with. 

So I am sorry that My Blog hasn’t catered to your needs. But tbh the only victims I know I can truly help are women raped by men, because that’s what I know.

i wonder if you ever think of me, and regret everything you did to me and said to me. you should be in fucking jail right now, but i couldn’t turn you in. you fucked with my head so much. you are a grown fucking man and had no right to beat me and force yourself on me and say those things to me. you don’t deserve to be out there, happy. you deserve to rot in hell, and i really hope you do. i WILL prove you wrong. i’ll be everything that you said i couldn’t be. and it’s all thanks to you.

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Literate: Today I went to a public toilet and

brandycooklyn:

I was washing my hands, and some guy was hanging around.

As they normally do. If you’re straight and don’t realise this: There are some places in the cities and suburbs which are called “cruising spots”. They’re public locations for gay guys (and married guys) to go to score some anonymous…

theabsolutetruth:

“May 29, 2012.
Last weekend, I saw my ex again. The one who forced me to have sex with him by using my sexual abuse against me. It took me two years, but I finally know how to deal with it. I could look him straight in the eye without wanting to kill him, for the first time.”

theabsolutetruth:

May 29, 2012.

Last weekend, I saw my ex again. The one who forced me to have sex with him by using my sexual abuse against me. It took me two years, but I finally know how to deal with it. I could look him straight in the eye without wanting to kill him, for the first time.”

joyofjoys:

THIS IS FUCKING HORRIBLE THING TO SAY TO SOMEONE, NO MATTER HOW MUCH THEY HAVE HURT YOU.

depends on what the scars are from i think, I don’t think this is horrible at all for my scars

joyofjoys:

THIS IS FUCKING HORRIBLE THING TO SAY TO SOMEONE, NO MATTER HOW MUCH THEY HAVE HURT YOU.

depends on what the scars are from i think, I don’t think this is horrible at all for my scars

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